story | Flight 172
The difference between us is that you are the pilot and I am a passenger.
And I know what you’re thinking. And yes. We are like flying. We are all about beautiful views and moving high up there and going places and emergency escapes and long journeys squeezed short and doing things we aren’t meant to. We are flying.
But you are the pilot, and I’m just a passenger. There is a wall between us that keeps you in your cockpit, with all your controls and your buttons and your co-pilot, and a belt around me that keeps me rooted to my seat, where I’m safe, and supposed to be.
The difference between us is that you are all about going to the beautiful views and I am just about seeing them.
When you’re sitting in there, about to take off, you will maybe think of me. About the passengers you’re about to not kill. About the passengers who will be thinking of you and your capabilities and your inabilities as you fly them past white and grey clouds.
When I’m sitting on my seat near the window, I will think about you thinking about not killing us. I will think about your capabilities and your inabilities as you fly us past white and grey clouds. I will pray for faith in you and thank you for all that you can do.
The difference between us is that you fly past turbulent weathers and thunder renders me powerless.
Your hands will be on the yoke and you will be doing your best to move us past the rumbling, tinted clouds with thunder showbizzing between layers. You will fly us above purple deserts of thunder-loaded masses and you will make me realise there are clouds I do not wish to jump upon.
We’re not the only people on the flight. There’s the airhostess, who’s friendly but not my friend, your co-pilot who I cannot see the face of, and another person I see, hear, feel, but do not know the role of. When the thunder scares me, I can probably turn to them when you’re busy moving us away from it. But if I am to fall in love with you, I will need you to sit beside me and laugh and hold my hand through it.
The difference between us is that you’re more about taking off and I am all about the flight landing home.
The flight is big, and the journey is long. The distance is high and the runway is invisible. Where we’re going, my boarding pass does not state. But where we are right now, mid-air, suspended, but moving, I love. The sky is just almost the right shade of blue and there are still streaks of sun raining through the clouds but there are also five stars scattered around already. I have the perfect seat to give me the perfect view.
But the direction is not to, it’s away. I’m more in the flight that just passed us, going the other way, than I am in yours.
The thing about us is that you’re the pilot, and I am your passenger.
And love stories and flights, and love and flying, are all very common and all very together, and the thing with us is that we are very common and we are very together but we are anything but typical, right?
I meet you through the plane, not on it. I don’t find you occupying the seat next to mine, or you saving the plane from hijackers or you being the guy that everybody on the plane hates and I love, or everybody loves and I hate. You just are, and I just am. I am a passenger, and you are the pilot. And it’ll be too cliché of you to fall in love with the airhostess anyway.
The thing about us is that you speak on the mic and I never take off my earphones.
I hear you when you let me. The only way I have to hear you is through the static you allow to carry to me what you have to say, to all your passengers. In that instant, sometimes you feel like the flight itself, and your brain, the cockpit: shut and off limits.
Your announcements may be too important, and may save my life. But the music I’m listening to is necessary to let me let you take off, the movie I’m watching needs to create more noise inside than the thunder outside. I cannot let the earphones fall.
The thing about us is that you have your rules and I have mine to follow.
When the oxygen is low and the people are more, the masks will fall. We will all find ways to breathe.
But these will be few of the only moments I will find myself wishing I were the pilot and you were the passenger. When I will see you forget your mask and put on somebody else’s first, I will wish I were your pilot, wish I could control you, wish my words could become announcements, orders, for you, wish you would just put on your own mask, wish you would just let yourself breathe.
The thing about us is that flying is your profession and words are my life.
On your flight I will have my laptop and in my bag I will have my books. You will give me magazines to read and allow me lights even when you have to turn them off. You will do everything right, but motion-sickness is an inbuilt disease I can’t battle with. And I need to be able to write and to read.
Flights are unsettling like waters are drowning. You fly, but I’m more of a train person anyway.
The thing about us is that you are a pilot, and I am a passenger.
You’re more about different aircrafts and different models, and I am only about seeing what you can do with the same. You can pack light and pack little, and my suitcases carry almost my entire world in them. You belong to the airlines and I keep changing my preferences according to my conveniences. You see the directions and you see the ways, even through clouds and all the haze, and I cannot even understand how it all works.
The thing about you is that you are you and I am not even me. I will say I’m not, but if I were to fall in love with you, it would be just exactly as a passenger does with a pilot: curious, ignorant, fleeting, and unpermitted-ly.